Well this isbullshit.Not everyone “needs” a sexual experience in their life, buddy.
OH MY GOD, 5 SECONDS IN AND I ALREADY CAN’T DEAL WITH THIS, JUST FROM THE OVERLY DISTRACTING MUSIC.
ARE YOU READY FOR A LOT OF CAPSLOCK RAGE?
Okay, transcript of the pseudo-scientific crap he’s spewing, which is difficult to make because of the INFURIATING AND OBNOXIOUSLY LOUD AND DISTRACTING MUSIC PLAYING OVER THIS GUY MONOLOGUING QUIETLY IN A MONOTONE IN THE BACKGROUND:
“Sexual anorexia is condition where people deny themselves sex, so they establish very rigid boundaries around sex, so they will not talk about anything sexual, they refuse to have any sexual connection with another person. There’s an incredible amount of anxiety around sex and the way they manage that anxiety around sex is by obsessively-compulsively not engaging in sex, so it’s a very real condition and it’s a condition that results from an underlying condition, an underlying disorder, either anxiety, primarily anxiety, but it can also be a manifestation of depression in people’s lives and their need to control their internal, emotional state by controlling something external to themselves.
So the main issue with sexual anorexia is the rigidity around which a person approaches sex, so they refuse to have sex in any way. We know that sex is an impulse. Sex is a drive that we have as humans, like eating, that we need sex to nourish our body and nourish our soul, so if you’re experiencing sexual anorexia it’s very important for you to seek people who are specifically trained to deal with this issue and have experience addressing this issue and have a way of guiding you to the solution you need in order to have the sexual expression in your life.”
Okay, so FIRST UP, SCREW YOU VERY MUCH AND I CORDIALLY INVITE YOU TO GO JUMP IN A LAKE.
“PhD, LMFT, Addictions Specialist”
Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and an addictions specialist!? THEY LET YOU AROUND PEOPLE WHO NEED HELP!? GOD, WHAT IS THIS WORLD COMING TO? AND WHAT BECOME-A-DOCTOR-ONLINE! SITE DID YOU PAY TO GET A PhD FROM, ASSHOLE?
Alright, some word counting for you all: That was 215 words, and he says “sex” or “sexual” a combined 16 times. If you agree with my punctuation, which admittedly you might not, he says sex in every freaking sentence at least once. DEAR LORD, JUST STOP. For comparison, he says “and” 6 times, “is” 7 times, and “the” 5 times. EVEN EXCLUDING THE 6 USES OF SEXUAL,” SEX IS HIS MOST USED WORD. MAYBE YOU WANT TO TURN AN EYE ON YOUR OWN ADDICTIONS, DOC. AND ALSO GO TAKE A BEGINNING ENGLISH COURSE OR SOMETHING, VARIETY IS THE SPICE OF ACCEPTABLE TO LISTEN TO COMMUNICATION.
Now, what the HELL is this about calling sex avoidance “anorexia”? YOU KNOW THAT’S AN ACTUAL THING, RIGHT? AN ACTUAL DISORDER THAT CAN KILL YOU? UNLIKE, Y’KNOW, CELIBACY? BECAUSE, AND JUST IN CASE YOU WEREN’T AWARE, PEOPLE ARE CAPABLE OF LIVING TO RIPE OLD AGES WITHOUT EVER HAVING SEX, AS OPPOSED TO, AS YOU ACTUALLY HAVE THE GALL TO MENTION, EATING. QUIT FREAKING COMPARING PEOPLE WITH EATING DISORDERS’ STRUGGLES TO YOUR INABILITY TO DEAL WITH PEOPLE NOT WANTING SEX.
And, OBSESSIVELY-COMPULSIVELY AVOIDING SEX? DID YOU REALLY SAY THAT? JUST SIT DOWN IN A TINY PLASTIC CHAIR AND COLOR, SIR. JUST SIT AND COLOR. MAYBE COLOR ON SOME PAGES FROM THE DSM THAT EXPLAIN OCD, SINCE APPARENTLY THAT WASN’T COVERED IN YOUR EDUCATION.
But quite apart from you misappropriating ACTUAL MEDICAL CONDITIONS to make yourself sound important and being a pretentious asshole, SEX IS NOT A REQUIREMENT AND WHAT THE HELL IS THIS ABOUT NEEDING IT TO NOURISH YOUR ~SOUL~? GET THE HELL OUT OF HERE WITH YOUR BLASPHEMY. NOTHING THAT MAKES ME SQUICK OUT IS NEEDED TO MAKE ME A MORE WHOLE PERSON AND SURE AS HELL IS NOT GOING TO REDEEM ME AND SET ME ON MY WAY TO ETERNAL SALVATION OR WHATEVER YOU THINK IS GOING ON THERE.
I AM FINE WITHOUT SEX. I HAVE BEEN FINE WITHOUT SEX. AND I WILL BE FINE WITHOUT SEX.
GO GET LAID OR SOMETHING AND QUIT SAYING SHIT ABOUT OTHER PEOPLE’S SEX LIVES. AND NEVER GO ANYWHERE NEAR ANYONE WHO NEEDS COUNSELING AGAIN.
AND MAYBE FIND SOME CONFIDENCE SO THAT YOU DON’T HAVE TO MAKE CRAPPY PSAS ABOUT THINGS THAT DON’T EXIST (seriously, SEXUAL ANOREXIA, HOW CAN YOU BE SERIOUS, GO DIE IN A FIRE) WITH SOME ANNOYING AND DISTRACTING AS HELL MUSIC BEING PLAYED OVER YOUR SORRY SPEECH.